At this moment, I’m watching my delicate nails and fingers typing away as I sip my iced coffee—skim milk, one scoop of sugar, just the way I like it. I love how my hair naturally shifts into that golden mocha honey tone. There’s something about letting my natural hair grow out that feels like a fresh start, and I’m fully embracing it.

I find so much peace in expressing my thoughts through my blog. Last night, though, peace felt so far away. I couldn’t sleep—I lay awake until 2 a.m., tossing and turning, my mind replaying life’s memories and experiences. I had to put on Lana Del Rey and let myself cry a little. She’s my go-to, always. I have many favorite artists, but Lana will always hold my heart. She’s a lover girl, just like me. If you know, you know.

But let me share what’s been on my mind. Sometimes, I overthink everything, unsure of what I really want to do with my life. I catch myself absorbing too many opinions and letting them shape my choices. But why? The only opinion that truly matters is my own. That’s the mantra I’ve set for this year: love yourself, listen to yourself. It’s essential, and it brings a sense of clarity that feels freeing.

There’s a phrase that echoes in my mind constantly: “La vida es bella pero traicionera.” Life is beautiful, but it’s also treacherous. Every day, we wrestle with our inner demons while still finding a way to live fully. Life is both a blessing and a lesson—a delicate balance that shapes who we are through friendships, relationships, and every connection we hold dear.

I’ve felt so many emotions, and truthfully, I still do. But that’s okay. I’m grateful for all of them. Every experience, every moment, continues to teach me and guide me. Living in the moment, I’ve realized, is the secret to building the future you dream of.

So, let me ask you this: when was the last time you truly listened to yourself?